TEEN Perspective: Peer Pressure with Drugs and Alcohol

The following post was written by ADAPT’s West Region Youth Leader Varun Ravi

As a teen in the 21st century, I can truthfully say that peer pressure is a ridiculously strong force. When others (usually adults) tell us not to succumb to peer pressure, we shrug it off or nod in agreement without really processing the value of what they’re saying. But they actually do have a point.

Teens, including myself, are often inclined to do what their friends are doing simply because they trust their friends so much and don’t want to miss out. For example, my friends often convince me into watching movies, trying out certain foods, or participating in activities that I otherwise would not partake in. Even in such harmless situations, I find it hard to turn them down. We teens are just so invested in our relationships among our peers that it actually prevents us from thinking for ourselves and making our own, independent decisions.

So what are you supposed to do when your best bud tries to convince you to have a drink? Although a lot of adults suggest that you seriously and firmly say no, I would adopt a bit of a different approach. There’s no need to panic or stiffen up; after all, they are your friends. It’s best to act friendly while still firmly refusing their offer. If they are true friends, they will respect your decision and will not force you to drink against your will. If they continue pressuring you, it is best to leave the scene as appropriately as possible. It’s natural to feel tempted by your friends, but NEVER forget to exercise your own judgment. It could, and most likely will cost you.

Although peer pressure is usually seen in a highly negative context, you can also use it to your advantage. Just as your friends can attempt to convince you to do something, you can try to convince them to stay clear of alcohol and drugs. I know just how daunting it can be to go against your friends, but don’t underestimate the power of your own words. If you have a close friend who is abusing drugs or alcohol, try to help them out. Do your best to distract them from such influences and find common activities that can keep their mind off the topic.

I understand just how powerful peer pressure can be when it comes to such issues as drugs and alcohol. But we do not have to let our friends rule over what we do. Exercise some more self-judgment, and you can take the first steps to helping yourself and your friends live a drug-free life!

If you are interested in being an ADAPT youth leader, contact Jackie Lagasca @ 862-210-0835 or [email protected].